I confronted one of the most important questions which teens generally come across. Where it becomes hard for them to choose one !!. I wish and think that my blog will help you out. Read on and decide, listen to what your heart says :)
I agree that there are talks and things which you can’t
share with your family, people say that there are secrets which cannot be
shared with family. Like your first crush, your first affair, your love life,
your first date & the list goes on. It’s good to be around with people of
same age as yours as they have the same mindset and they share the same
energies with you. I agree due to generation gap many of us have never shared
our secrets with our family, but if you try to share each and everything with
them I bet they will understand you, they always do that!! It can never be
ignored that whenever in trouble they defend us and in joy they celebrate with
us. Our Family stands with us no matter what. It’s a relationship which stands
beside us for no reason, NO REASON AT ALL!! They love you, treat you as your
own, show you right way, stand with you all the time be it good or bad, encourage
you, and make you believe in your dreams, help to chase them (dreams), and try
to provide the best of your lives, without expecting anything in return. They
love us unconditionally and wish to see us happy and successful. If they
restrict us doing something it’s for our good only, we may not like and offend their
decision at that time but in the end, after years have passed, we do realize
the fact that it was for our good only. They sacrifice everything to see you
happy and make you smile. They always wish to see you progress and achieve the
heights of success.
Friends are indeed important!! But they stand at different
place when it comes to relationships. They hangout with you, they party hard
with you, they stroll and make you happy all the time. But when you are with
your family they make you feel comfortable and complete, secure and loving, moreover
when we have friends who care and share and stands through all the ups and
downs of our life we start considering them as family, remember the punch line??
“tum to ghar ke hi ho, tumhse kya chupana!” which translates “you are as my
family, there is nothing that I’ll hide from you!!”.
To me it’s easy to find a friend in family, than finding a
family in a friend. My mom is my friend who cares, shares, assures and secures.
My dad is my friend, philosopher and guide to me who encourages all the time to
chase my dreams, no matter how hard it is !! My brother is my friend who
teases, fights, gets angry, shouts all the time but then in end of the day
brings me a box full of chocolates shares and eats with me. Friend’s do have an
important place in any one’s life but not more than a family. Family member can
forego their dreams and career for you, I hardly see any friend doing that in
today’s world!!!
Moreover it’s not all about blood relations, it’s all about
the depth of understanding you share with them :-) Friends do hold an important part but if you ask me to choose one from them I
will always say “Family Comes First”
Thank You.
Country Girl :-)
